[...]
listen: 
  - 
    port: 5222
    module: ejabberd_c2s
    certfile: "/etc/ejabberd/ejabberd.pem"
    starttls: true
    starttls_required: true
    protocol_options:
      - "no_sslv2"
      - "no_sslv3"
      - "no_tlsv1"
      - "no_tlsv1_1"
    ciphers: "ECDHE-ECDSA-AES256-GCM-SHA384:ECDHE-RSA-AES256-GCM-SHA384:ECDHE-ECDSA-CHACHA20-POLY1305:ECDHE-RSA-CHACHA20-POLY1305:ECDHE-ECDSA-AES128-GCM-SHA256:ECDHE-RSA-AES128-GCM-SHA256:ECDHE-ECDSA-AES256-SHA384:ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA384:ECDHE-ECDSA-AES128-SHA256:ECDHE-RSA-AES128-SHA256"
    dhfile: "/etc/ejabberd/dh2048.pem"
    [...]
  - 
    port: 5269
    ip: "::"
    module: ejabberd_s2s_in
    protocol_options:
      - "no_sslv2"
      - "no_sslv3"
      - "no_tlsv1"
      - "no_tlsv1_1"

[...]
s2s_use_starttls: required
s2s_certfile: "/etc/ejabberd …